我求上帝拿走我的坏习惯.
上帝说：不，不是我拿走而是你要舍弃；
我求上帝使我残缺的孩子健全.
上帝说：不，他的灵魂是健全的，身体只是暂时的；
我求上帝赐我忍耐.
上帝说：不，忍耐是磨难的副产品，不是赐予的而是要学来的；
我求上帝给我快乐.
上帝说：不，我给你祝福，快乐取决于你自己；
我求上帝拿走我的伤痛.
上帝说：不，苦难让你远离属世的挂虑使你更亲近我；
我求上帝使我灵命成长.
上帝说：不，你必须要自己成长，但我会修剪使你结果更多；
我求上帝赐我一切让我可以享受生命.
上帝说：不，我赐你生命让你可以享受一切；
我求上帝帮助我爱别人，像他爱我那样多.
上帝说：啊，孩子，你终于明白了！
This is my niece Chloe. I have taken this shot quite sometime back but I kind of like this picture. What do you think?
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I am dead tired as I spend most of the time at church today since 8am to 930pm. I am glad that I am a sunday school teacher of 7 new students. It was a challenge for me to teach and from the teaching, I have learned a lot too. Time pass very fast, still remember I am a student of nafa (Nanyang Academy of Fine Arts) That was the time I had a lot of fun and knew lots of friends there. Try to think of it… it is 10 years back! Wow!
Treasure the time you have with your friends and family. Cause as I grow up, I saw lot of unexpected things happened. Just like last year, my beloved grandma and dog (Joe) pass away. It really show how fragile a life can be. Life still have to go on. I really wanted to say thanks to all my friends for being a part of me. Be happy!
放手，不等于不关心，只是我不能代替别人做事。
放手，不等于从此不管，而是明白我不该控制他人。
放手，就是不要提供所有答案，让别人从结果中学习。
放手，就是承认无能为力，因为结果如何不在于我。
放手，就是不再试图改变或责备他人，因我只能改变自己。
放手，就是关心而非操心。
放手，就是不要替别人补救，只是表示支持。
放手，就是不要批评，让对方保有尊严。
放手，就是不要操纵结果，让别人自行决定。
放手，就是不要过分保护，让别人面对现实。
放手，就是不要否定，只是接纳。
放手，就是不要唠叨、叱责和争辩，而是反思己过予以改正。
放手，就是不强求凡事照自己的意思，而是接受现状，珍惜每一刻。
放手，就是不再批评或勉强别人，而是努力成为自己理想中的人。”
放手，就是不为过去感到遗憾，而是继续成长，为未来而活。
放手，就是少害怕一点，多爱一点。
First of all, thanks to Quan Feng for taking this beautiful picture of Marie, wonder the credits should goes to the camera…hahaha..kidding ;P. Yesterday after the gathering, Marie was awake till 3am. She woke up in interval of 30 mins! Both of us couldn’t have a good sleep. Guess I must take some vitamins for myself too.
If you want to see more of Marie, can go to her blog at
My Blog – Marie Tan
四个孩子者争着对母亲：“妈妈，我爱你。”
老大说：“我最大，爱妈妈也爱得最久。”
老二说：“我是唯一的女孩，最知道爱妈妈。”
老三说：“妈妈，如果有危险临到，我定会保护你。”
老四说：“妈妈，我说不出来，但我爱你。”
一会儿，门铃响了，孩子们争着去开门，原来是邮递员送来的一封急信。母亲写好回信已是傍晚。她希望孩子中有人今晚就去二里路外的城镇投邮。
老大说：‘我还有五道数学题没有做。”
老二说：“明天上学带去不是顺便吗？”
老三说：“天下雨，有危险的。”
老四说：“好的，我去吧！”
只有用行动来证明的才是真的！我们对主的爱和对人的爱都当具体。“小子们哪，我们相爱，不要只在言语和舌头上，总要在行为和诚实上。
Scottish Fold kittens are born with straight ears. At about three to four weeks of age, their ears fold. First time I see this type of breed. Cool!
“Marie” has happen to be the hottest topic among family and friends. Now “level up” already… hahaha. Seem like I have the habit of sleeping late now, guess I have to get used to Marie sleeping hours. Really miss those old times…
Today is my father “60th” birthday. There will be a small celebration going on in my house this evening starting at 6pm. It is going to be squeezing tonight… I am grateful to have a dad like him. Nothing great in life but great in personality… still learning from him. May God continue to lead him. Now then I know, daddy not easy to be. Continue to pray for me ok?
After a few days of sleepless nites, finally got a good sleep last night. Manage to feel fresh and energetic, although Marie woke up a couple of times. Susan is the one taking care of her. Me? Guess I slept too soundly till I can’t hear the cry (Susan is sleeping by the way… )
Guess there are couple of things to do. Hope to finish the work and some projects that are given to me. It is enjoyable to do the stuff i like so no complain. Hope in the future, I have achieve what I have plan to do. God knows our needs. Cheers.
Thanks God for all the things HE had provided us. Especially Marie. Starting was hard to adjust myself to the new enviroment. Sleepless nites and unfinish business (buy things, take that, feed her…etc) Hahaha… but when I saw her sleeping soundly, it is worth giving all I have.
